Appreciate Others

The Isaiah Jarvis Impact

2023-03-13T22:15:59-05:00September 6th, 2022|Tags: , , |

Sean Kouplen owns multiple businesses, including a $1 billion bank. He also coaches the top little league team in Oklahoma.   Before they went into the regional Little League playoffs, Sean encouraged his team, to love others and be kind to the other teams.  Sean’s player, Isaiah Jarvis, shocked the world when after being hit in the head with a ...

A Labor Day Response

2023-03-13T21:57:23-05:00September 5th, 2022|Tags: , , |

The celebration of Labor Day is a reminder of the ongoing tension that often happens between employers and employees. When employers feel their sole purpose is to maximize profits, they may jump to the conclusion that minimizing labor costs is their duty.  When employers became too heavy-handed in the 1890s, employee pay and working conditions became deplorable, spurring a ...

Outrageous Behavior

2023-03-13T21:54:15-05:00September 2nd, 2022|Tags: , , |

While Julie Jaman was showering in a YMCA in Washington, she heard a man’s voice. She peaked out to see a man dressed in a woman’s bathing suit watching naked little girls.  Jaman shouted at this man to get out. She then complained to a pool staffer.  The YMCA staff had an important decision to make; protect the safety ...

A Culture of Respect

2023-02-19T11:14:31-06:00September 1st, 2022|Tags: , , |

On August 11th, the day my mother passed, the funeral home sent someone to her memory care facility to take my mother’s body away. As I followed my mother’s body out, a parade of nurses and caregivers formed.   The entire crew who had devotedly cared for my mother stood quietly as her body was slid into a van. Some ...

Knowledge With Restraint

2023-02-18T16:29:50-06:00August 22nd, 2022|Tags: , , |

My friend, Gary, and I were recently discussing our admiration for a mutual friend, Jim. Gary and I have both observed Jim’s style when serving as a board member.  Although Jim usually has far more business and board experience than others, Jim is careful to allow others to share before he expresses his thoughts. With Jim’s vast business experience, ...

Harsh Training

2023-02-18T16:00:35-06:00August 17th, 2022|Tags: , , |

When my friend, Ray, was young he had many uncomfortable meetings with his boss. He usually felt intimidated, was belittled, and often felt his boss hated him.  Years later, when Ray’s boss departed the organization, he said to Ray, “Don’t forget who trained you!” Until that moment, Ray never realized that this man was working to train him to ...

Faith in Corporate America

2023-02-11T10:58:13-06:00July 27th, 2022|Tags: , , |

A bright spot in the faith at work movement is in corporate America through Employee Resource Groups (ERG). American Airlines was this year’s winner of the most faith friendly Fortune 500 workplace because of the Corporate Religious Equity, Diversity and Inclusion (REDI) Index.   American Airlines allows employee-led faith gatherings, hosts interfaith events, encourages community outreach partnerships, and provides Prayer Rooms.   American ...

Being Approachable

2023-02-11T10:40:36-06:00July 26th, 2022|Tags: , , |

One of King David’s best leader qualities was his willingness to be approachable. When David learned that his men had bravely fought and defeated David’s son, Absalom, David mourned Absalom’s death but didn’t praise his men for their victory.  Joab knew this would undermine David’s leadership. In 2 Samuel 19, Joab said to David, “Today you have shamed all your ...

A Multidimensional Life

2023-02-10T17:22:44-06:00July 18th, 2022|Tags: , , |

Life is multidimensional, but we often limit ourselves to our one-dimensional perspective. This became evident to me after my father’s passing on May 31st.  As my siblings, and my aunt, shared about dad, I began hearing their different perspectives on many stories about my father. For example, I knew that my dad changed dramatically when I was 17, but ...

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