My friend, Gary, and I were recently discussing our admiration for a mutual friend, Jim. Gary and I have both observed Jim’s style when serving as a board member.
Although Jim usually has far more business and board experience than others, Jim is careful to allow others to share before he expresses his thoughts. With Jim’s vast business experience, he could easily jump in and dominate meetings without allowing others to share their wisdom.
Jim knows that listening to others is important!
Proverbs 17:27, “The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.”
Restraint in meetings, when you think you have the right answer, requires humility. It’s important that you provide your insight, but never assume your knowledge is more important than your peers.