Recently, I observed a former CEO struggle as he gave a speech to a business audience. Brad’s presentation style distracted from his message because of his dependence upon his notes. 

Afterwards, I sensed that Brad sincerely wanted to improve his speaking skills. Although it’s risky to offer up unsolicited advice, I offered a few tips that would enhance his speaking skills. 

To my pleasure, God had already prepared Brad’s heart. When I was done sharing, he said, “God used you today to share what I needed to hear. Thank you!” 

Proverbs 9:8 teaches, “Do not rebuke a scoffer, or he will hate you; Rebuke a wise person and he will love you.” 

Before giving constructive criticism ask yourself, “Is this person wise like Brad, or a scoffer who won’t listen?”